Fragile, trivial, weak, dependent;
To everyone this is how I am known.
Home, kitchen, husband and children
are glorified as my “womb to tomb'” zone.
Education, Independence, Career,
seemed infinite miles far;
Coz since time immemorial
I have been kept at the sacrificial altar.
And nothing,
nothing motivated me to bloom;
Since I can remember,
I have been locked up in a gaslighted room.
I was stifled there,
and the keys were thrown away;
Justified on the ground that
my freedom will make society disarrayed
That is how since ages
I have been shut out from the ‘ambitious’ race
and the world out there,
I was not being allowed to face.
I know that never did I fight,
quite enough for my rights
protecting phony harmony & peace,
that somewhere I didn’t want to strike.
The urge to avenge welled up in my soul
But I gave in each time,
As the norms dictated -“It’s an unpardonable crime,
Just keep playing your assigned role”
I surrendered each time
whenever I wished to take a stand,
coz attachment, obligations
and countless other shackles,
had throttled my mind and hands.
Treading through the thorny boulders,
I carried the household on my shoulders.
Neither a word of gratitude,
nor ever I received my dues.
And was being told that
“This was the very thing
you were born for
and shall be destined to do”
~Swati Mishra
There can’t be a better explanation of women than this.
Very Heart Touching.